Ok, I know this is gross, and maybe not fit for a blog...But, I am getting really frustrated with Elijah. He keeps pooping his pants...and he is 5!!! He is fully potty trained but seems to get lazy...and when he does go in the toilet, he won't wipe his own butt, I have to do it. Is this normal, is there something I can do? He is currently on restriction from the playstation, I warned him before I put him on restriction...and he ended up doing it again. Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated.